Change For The Better Continued

Well I had hoped for a little more response.  Is anyone interested in changing or have you been there done that and nothing works for you so you give up.  What kind of attitude is that it sounds like me seventeen years ago.

That is just what I was saying no one cares about me and I can not change so I will continue doing what I do ruining other peoples lives because I am weak and have no will power.   

Sorry! That is right you must want to do something about a problem before it can be repaired to the best of your ability.  Anyway another part of this illness is health itself.  Do you take care of yourself and eat coarrectly and exercise.  

These are all tough parts of the well being of your life.  So lets do that get ourselves in tune with what we are about to take on for the sake of people we love.  So like I said earlier this is not a special treatment that you pay thousands of dollars. 

I could use the money.  Week one if you are not already doing it lets get a little more healthy.  We need to wake up each morning and hop in the shower or tub.  Moving on the the grooming department come our hair and brush our teeth.  

That is right start off on the right foot.  These are not hard things to do for some but for others it might take a miracle.  

I am not saying that you stink but you probably do so clean it up.    

Eating three meals a day or whatever you feel good about doing at this point.  Wow that is not what I meant at all do not fall back into that catagory of helplessness.  You are probably on the urge of having an attack.

Stopping in steps is good for some people.  The only way to know that is to try it for yourself. Remember I am not making you do a thing you make all the decisions.  What are you going to use to substitute your vice. 

Maybe its apiece of hard rock candy for that vice.  Maybe its the book of twelve steps if you need to call someone to make you feel bad.  The bottom line it is you who is still making all the decisions.  Some of us can only act in groups.

But you must realize that you are alone.  When you took that big step to get married it was just two people and the lord.  Now you are in the same position again and you must be strong.  Have you ever used a bandage filled with medicine to calm the pain.

You are now at the crossroads and you need to make a decision.  Change for the Better or the end of a long relationship.  What do you care about?  Lets look inside and ask again.  What do I want?  What are you willing to give!

Do you care about anything more than your vice?